Earning More Than Her Husband, Even Supporting His Family
AI translated from the original Chinese.
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Ms. Y has a successful career and a proactive personality. But her husband is passive about work, feeling that earning enough to get by is enough. Several times, when his family had sudden expenses that he couldn't pay, Ms. Y footed the bill. After living like this for a long time, Ms. Y grew more and more weary.
How do we read the quality of a husband? 太陽 (Tai Yang) is the "husband star," which shows whether the husband can earn money. The chart:
太陽 is the husband star
- 太陽 in the 午 Palace forms the "日麗中天格" (the sun shining at noon pattern), which should look good. Unfortunately the damage of 太陽 化忌 × turns it into the "虛名虛利格" (empty fame, empty gain pattern). With such a chart, outsiders think the couple is happy and fulfilled, but the joys and sorrows within can't be shared with outsiders.
- 太陽 sits with 擎羊 (Qing Yang), forming the "people leave, money scatters pattern." Although "people leave" won't necessarily really happen, "money scatters" always does.
- 太陽 is the husband star, so its Spouse Palace, the 辰 Palace, also matters. The 辰 Palace's stem 壬 makes 天梁 (Tian Liang) become 化祿 ●, meeting 太陽 from the 子 Palace. 天梁 is the "sheltering star," so here it speaks of the husband needing to take care of his family.
- Following point 3, the 辰 Palace's stem 壬 also makes 武曲 (Wu Qu) become 化忌 ×, which happens to break Ms. Y's 祿存 (Lu Cun) too. So her husband puts holes in Ms. Y's savings, with money constantly flowing out.
In sum, Ms. Y's 太陽 has the "虛名虛利格" and also the "people leave, money scatters pattern." To take care of her husband's family and keep up appearances, she must have gone to great lengths, and of course couldn't help some resentment. Yet bringing in her husband's data, there's no sign of divorce. All we can say is that Ms. Y complains about what she gives, but keeps giving without leaving.
Conclusion
In readings I often say to clients: "So many people were born at the same time as you; could everyone have the same thing happen?" Master 紫雲 (Zi Yun) also said: "What you see in a chart won't necessarily happen; what happens can always be seen in the chart." Very true.
Ms. Y's 太陽 shows an image of giving for the family, and she happened to meet a husband who triggered it; only then was the pattern set off.
Tomorrow, we'll bring in her husband's data and discuss why he triggers the negative pattern of 太陽.