The Ex-Boyfriend with Emotional Problems
By 巫垚
AI translated from the original Chinese.
Generated by Copilot
Continuing from the last article: Ms. L's love luck looks good on the surface of her chart, but hides ill within.
Ms. L's first love had emotional problems. At the slightest frustration he would fly into a rage, even behave irrationally. Over time, besides fear, Ms. L also felt pessimistic and helpless. Finally, with the help of family and friends, she got free of her first love.
Why was her first love like this? He was born in a 庚申 year; let's bring him into the chart and find out:
A person born in 庚申 is 天府 (Tian Fu)
- 天府 is in the 亥 Palace. 天府 is Earth and the 亥 Palace is Water, so "Water and Earth clash," and 天府 shows less positive force and more negative.
- 天府 sits with 火星 (Huo Xing). In my experience, someone sitting with one of the four malefics 擎羊, 陀羅, 火星 or 鈴星, apart from love, can be said to bring drive to work and life; but when it shows up in love, there are often emotional problems, especially sudden outbursts of rage that frighten people.
- 天府's stem 丁 happens to make 巨門 (Ju Men) become 化忌 ×. 巨門 sits with 太陽 (Tai Yang); when 巨門 has a problem, it affects 太陽 too. And 太陽 is the "husband star"; damaged by 火星 and 化忌 ×, it forms the "Ten Evils pattern." 巨門 can also speak of inner darkness. So this 化忌 is very destructive, and the first love couldn't be a good partner.
- 天府's Spouse Palace is 廉貞 and 破軍 (Lian Zhen, Po Jun), which show up poorly in the 酉 Palace. 破軍 is lord of the spouse and is already poor, and it also happens to meet 擎羊 (Qing Yang). In Dou Shu, 擎羊 often speaks of "blades" or "violence." The stem 乙 also makes 太陰 (Tai Yin) become 化忌 ×, forming the "people leave, money scatters pattern," which, as the name says, is naturally bad.
Conclusion
I think most first loves start out beautiful, but gradually go sour as time passes. With young men and women, I often suggest casting a chart before getting together with someone, before giving all their feelings, so they can better seek good and avoid ill. After all, how a first love turns out easily shapes one's values for the rest of life. A good first love, even if it ends, can end as well as it began, without regret.