School Bullying

AI translated from the original Chinese.

Hearing about school bullying fills people with indignation, all the more when their own relatives or children have been bullied at school. To keep this from happening, we should all pay more attention to the school lives of our relatives and children: not to become a victim of bullying, and of course not to unknowingly become a bully either.

Ms. D's child was bullied at school, came to fear school life, and developed some physical and mental problems as a result. Ms. D was saddened and wanted to do everything she could to help her child through it.

What's wrong in the chart of Ms. D's child that she was bullied? And how should we help her?

For school bullying, we can watch the spirit star 指背 (Zhi Bei); for physical and mental troubles caused by the environment, 巨門 (Ju Men) should be the focus.

The negative view: 廉貞 and 貪狼 in 亥, "rising from a desperate situation"?

1. 廉貞 and 貪狼 (Lian Zhen, Tan Lang) in 亥 form the "rising from a desperate situation" pattern. As the name says, only on reaching a "desperate situation" can one "rise."
2. 廉貞 and 貪狼 in 亥 are affected by the stems of the three sides and four directions, 癸, 乙 and 丁, which concentrate 化忌 on 貪狼, 太陰 (Tai Yin) and 巨門, triggering "rising from a desperate situation." The underlying nature is poor.
3. The 巳 Palace is the Travel Palace of the "rising from a desperate situation" pattern, which also represents whether the environment is friendly. The 巳 Palace holds 鈴星 (Ling Xing) and 陀羅 (Tuo Luo), both Yin malefics, so the hostility of the environment isn't a head-on attack but gradual, silent isolation.
4. 巨門 stands for physical and mental problems caused by the environment; its stem 壬 makes 武曲 (Wu Qu) become 化忌 ×, clashing with the 亥 Palace, also an image of triggering "rising from a desperate situation."
5. Besides "rising from a desperate situation," the 亥 Palace also sits with 文曲 (Wen Qu), producing the "政事顛倒格" (affairs-of-state upside down pattern) and the "粉身碎骨格" (shattered to pieces pattern). These patterns together make a person feel unwell in body and mind.
6. The 亥 Palace's stem 辛 also makes 文昌 (Wen Chang) become 化忌 ×, striking the 亥 Palace and piling evil pattern upon evil pattern.
7. Because the 亥 Palace forms evil patterns, 指背 shows negative force. 指背 means "people pointing and whispering behind your back," which makes one feel isolated and the environment full of hostility.

The positive view: concentrated 化祿, blessed by 天魁

1. Fortunately, the 亥 Palace holds 天魁 (Tian Kui), a benefactor star, and it's also the "rising from a desperate situation" pattern, so when she feels isolated, suitable help will step in.
2. The 亥 Palace has 化忌 × concentrated, but in fact it also has the help of 化祿 ●. So as long as Ms. D's child seeks help, someone will reach out and pull her through.

Conclusion

School is really a small society. Before entering society, we all grow up and grow strong at school, and caring about our children's growth at school is our responsibility and duty. Ms. D's child felt hostility at school; fortunately Ms. D noticed in time and worked with the teachers to help her out of her difficulties. Children may not escape some shadows as they grow, so we must give them warmth in time to help them have a healthy, happy childhood.