The Pretty Salesperson Who Can't Find the Right Partner
AI translated from the original Chinese.
Generated by Microsoft Designer
Ms. T is a sweet, lovely saleswoman at a foreign company, with impressive academic credentials. After asking about work, she immediately asked about her love luck. The reason: she dated one boyfriend in college, but since the breakup there's been no romance at all, and she wanted me to see when she could find a suitable partner.
Let's not discuss when she can find a suitable partner; let's discuss why she still hasn't found anyone.
The love pattern is in 酉
- The 酉 Palace is a romance palace, and it holds the romance star 太陰 (Tai Yin). From this we can see that Ms. T's manner is sweet and lovely. Beauty is very subjective, but this pattern at least makes people feel she's dignified and well mannered.
- 太陰 sits with 天鉞 (Tian Yue), which adds an air of elegance.
- Ms. T's problem lies in the 卯 Palace. 天同 (Tian Tong) and 咸池 (Xian Chi) are also romance stars and should have a positive influence on 太陰, but there's also 地劫 (Di Jie). When 地劫 falls in a love pattern, it dilutes romance, so the partner Ms. T wants only needs to meet the condition of "a meeting of souls." But a meeting of souls is truly hard to find.
- The stem 乙 of 太陰's Spouse Palace also plays a key role. 乙 makes 太陰 become 化忌 ×, directly damaging a love pattern that looks so pretty. Moreover, 地空 (Di Kong) also sits in that palace, which likewise dilutes romance.
Ms. T has a lot going for her; I think if she actively looked for a partner, it shouldn't be hard. But her biggest problem is that she works hard and has no time for anything else. Even after work she isn't keen on going to gatherings to meet people. So to find a partner, she just needs to step out of her familiar comfort zone. The key is whether Ms. T is willing to change her current lifestyle a little.
Conclusion
In fact, using Zi Wei Dou Shu to find a partner, we can only calculate when you'll be in the mood to actively look, not when you'll have a partner. If even when actively looking you can't find anyone suitable, then once the time when you want to fall in love has passed, you'll go back to living the same life day after day.
Some ask: if fortune-telling can't say when you'll find a partner, does that mean the reader isn't skilled enough? Think about it: would everyone born at the same time find a partner of the same zodiac sign at the same moment and then decide to marry at the same time? Master 紫雲 (Zi Yun) wrote: "What happens can always be seen in the chart; but what you see in a chart won't necessarily happen!" So if you're thinking of romance, seize the time actively, change a few of your habits, meet more people, or ask more people for introductions, so you don't miss a good match.