Case studiesNovember 7, 2020

When Shall We Meet Again in Longing? Tonight, This Night, the Heart Can Hardly Bear It

AI translated from the original Chinese.

Generated by Gemini

Thanks to promotion by my dear friend, the founder of "深度西班牙" (Deep Spain), every available slot through December 31, 2020 was booked within two days. I began taking reading appointments gradually this February, and over about 8 months, through friends bringing friends and their word of mouth, the response has grown beyond anything I expected.

I have always felt that every person's life is unique and beautiful, and the traces of a life, good or bad, surely have meaning. During this time of readings, being lazy by nature, I have mistakenly forgotten too many special lives, so that now, trying hard to recall them, I can hardly remember those unique cases. But this young woman is the case I find hardest to forget.


Generally, clients ask about career, wealth, investment, health, relationships, children and parents. But this woman asked me only one question: was there any chance to win back a lost love?

Actually, you don't need Zi Wei Dou Shu for this. Generally we all know that once a relationship has ended, it is unlikely to be rekindled. Her question can be understood as clutching for driftwood in utter despair.

Let's look at her chart:

In this chart, the 夫妻宮 (Spouse Palace) has 天同 (Tian Tong), which governs comfort, but 火星 (Huo Xing) and 擎羊 (Qing Yang) also run rampant there. Generally one would judge that her marriage luck is poor. Let's reshape the chart to understand her love life more deeply.

In matters of love, 紅鸞 (Hong Luan) and 天喜 (Tian Xi) come first. So let's focus on them to read her destiny.

天喜 in the 癸酉 Palace (together with its three sides and four directions: 丁丑, 丁卯, 己巳)

  • 廉貞 (Lian Zhen): a secondary romance star; when it meets romance stars (天喜, 咸池, 紅鸞, 天姚), it indicates striking beauty.
  • 破軍 (Po Jun): a Water star, which can speak of love between men and women.
  • 廉貞 + 文昌 + 文曲: many thoughts, much toil
  • 破軍 + 文昌 + 文曲: impulsive, much toil
  • 擎羊, 陀羅 (Tuo Luo): govern harm and conflict
  • 擎羊 + 火星: the 火羊 pattern, impulsive and hard-working

Overall judgment: the subject is beautiful and striking, but in love she is prone to impulsiveness and to restless toil.

She once had a happy marriage, but in a moment of impulse she divorced the man she deeply loved. After the divorce she desperately wanted him back. But the beautiful love was gone, and all that remained was endless sorrow.

I still remember her consultation about love: she wept like a flower in the rain. She said that if there were even the slightest hope of reconciling with her ex-husband, she was willing to try, because no matter what, she could not hold back her regret and longing for him. Even when her attempts came to nothing, she kept on trying.

廉貞, 破軍 and 文曲, gathering all the romance stars as well: this is the pattern of someone who, when she loves, loves with all her strength, yet is prone to impulsive actions she later bitterly regrets and cannot undo. Not every love has a happy ending. I only hope she can soon let go of the memories of the past, and still be willing to love, and willing to be loved.