The Husband Who Needs His Wife's Financial Help
AI translated from the original Chinese.
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Yesterday we talked about Ms. Y, who often has to pay out of her own pocket because her husband is responsible for his family's expenses. This has gone on so long that Ms. Y is exhausted, and sometimes thinks of divorce. How does her husband show up in the chart? Let's keep observing from the chart:
太陽 (Tai Yang) is the husband star
This chart is a variant taking 太陽 as its basis. Let's bring in the husband's data and keep looking at how 太陽 shows up.
- 太陽 is in the 午 Palace; yesterday we discussed the "虛名虛利格" (empty fame, empty gain pattern). But bringing the husband's stem into the 午 Palace gives 庚, which actually makes 太陽 become 化祿 ●, so the way the husband treats Ms. Y isn't bad.
- The husband's 祿存 (Lu Cun) falls in the 寅 Palace, also auspiciously transforming 午 and the "虛名虛利格." Unfortunately, 祿存 is in an empty palace and its force isn't strong. All we can say is that the husband treats Ms. Y well, but rather feels his strength isn't equal to his wishes. He can't take care of her financially, but can still make up for it in how he treats her.
The husband's main star is 七殺 (Qi Sha)
In a chart, for anyone related to us we can find their "main star" to discuss their personality and how they treat us. Let's see how 七殺 shows up.
- 七殺 and 廉貞 (Lian Zhen) fall in the 丑 Palace, with very weak force, and are also damaged by 化忌. This speaks of the husband swallowing his grievances to keep the peace; he wants to accomplish something but lacks the strength.
- 七殺 governs "authority," but meeting 地空 (Di Kong) and 地劫 (Di Jie), it "loses its might." Moreover, 廉貞 and 七殺 in 丑 is already a pattern of grievance, and on top of that it "loses its might." The husband has a good personality but is constrained by circumstances; he only knows how to go with the flow and feels powerless about everything.
- 廉貞 and 七殺 in 丑, stem 丁, make 巨門 (Ju Men) become 化忌 ×, damaging 太陽. His helplessness in life is reflected on 太陽, the husband star. Though it slightly rescues the "people leave, money scatters pattern," it still shows the state of "empty fame, empty gain."
Conclusion
As the saying goes, "husband and wife are birds of the same wood"; but in this chart, they don't "fly apart when disaster comes."
Ms. Y, who often meets her husband's financial needs, can't help some resentment about this life, but for her it's just a matter of finding an outlet for her feelings. Under the weight of reality, love sometimes seems humble, but it's because they're still bound by feeling that she keeps giving for her husband's family even while she complains.
Society today is one of equal rights. Of course we'd want everyone to take responsibility for themselves, but giving for one's spouse is a matter of personal will, whether for Ms. Y or for her husband. It's their choice of how to live, and we only read their relationship from the chart; let's not comment on how other people get along.