Prone to Meeting Heartless Men
By 巫垚
AI translated from the original Chinese.
Generated by fotor
In my reading experience, some women always meet unsuitable partners. What counts as an unsuitable partner?
At the mild end, emotional problems; a bit worse, no stable job, living off the woman; worse still, emotional abuse and taking her money; at the worst, physical violence on top of emotional abuse, gambling and demanding money.
And after breaking up with one such man, these women soon meet another, over and over, with no end. Is there really a chart that's a magnet for such men?
In Ms. W's life, she always meets this type of partner. Her ex-husband drank, gambled, demanded money and was violent at home. After finally divorcing and getting free of him, she met another man of the same type. What does such a chart look like, and how should I advise her?
For marriage we usually focus on 紅鸞 and 天喜 (Hong Luan, Tian Xi), the Sun and Moon, and 破軍 (Po Jun). 紅鸞 and 天喜 are without question the stars of romantic affinity; the Sun stands for the quality of a woman's partner and the Moon for that of a man's partner; 破軍 stands for how husband and wife get along day to day after marriage.
Let's see what's happening in Ms. W's chart.
太陽 (Tai Yang), 紅鸞 and 天喜 see malefics
- 紅鸞, the star of marriage, happens to sit with 太陽. 太陽 can symbolize all male relatives, but since Ms. W's 太陽 sits with 紅鸞, we can narrow it to boyfriends or husbands.
- 太陽 is the "husband star." 巨門 (Ju Men) and 太陽 in 寅 are entangled with 化忌 ×, naturally weak.
- 太陽 seeing 鈴星 (Ling Xing) forms the "Ten Evils pattern." The "Ten Evils" refers to the ten gravest crimes in ancient times; in modern terms, a tendency to do things that defy convention.
- 巨門 shares the palace with 太陽, so the quality of 巨門 also matters a great deal. 巨門 sits with 鈴星 and 陀羅 (Tuo Luo), forming "巨鈴陀, the hanged-for-life pattern." "Hanged for life" needn't be read as hanging oneself; because it says "for life," this pattern carries an image of being trapped by men all one's life. Put simply, she easily ruins herself for a bad man.
廉貞 and 破軍 weak in 酉
- 破軍 is "lord of the spouse," symbolizing daily life after marriage. It sits with 廉貞 (Lian Zhen) and is weak, so married life brings many troubles.
- 破軍 in 酉, stem 乙, makes 太陰 (Tai Yin) become 化忌 ×, triggering "天機 and 天梁 meeting 擎羊" in the 辰 Palace, which produces the pattern "harm and conflict early, loneliness late."
- 太陰, already triggered by 化忌 ×, with 擎羊 (Qing Yang) also forms the "people leave, money scatters pattern."
Conclusion
In Ms. W's chart, when it comes to marriage and love, it's not easy to meet the right person. But does this chart make a good partner impossible? All I can say is that for people with this chart, we always suggest having family and friends introduce partners. At least, screened by family and friends, most of the bad men can be filtered out.
On the positive side, if this chart meets certain zodiac signs that don't trigger the evil patterns, a beautiful, happy marriage is also possible.