Never Had a Boyfriend (Part 1)
By 巫垚
AI translated from the original Chinese.
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In my years of readings I've met many single women, some of whom have never had a boyfriend. Setting aside lesbians and those inclined to asexuality, these women are attractive, their work and financial situations above average, their thinking refined and full of substance. Why have these well-qualified women never had a boyfriend? The next few articles will take this as their theme!
For matters of love, we still start from 紅鸞 (Hong Luan) and 天喜 (Tian Xi). The chart:
The key to the love-and-marriage pattern: 天喜
- 天喜 is in the 卯 Palace, with the double-star 殺破狼 (Sha Po Lang). People with the double-star 殺破狼 are strongly career-minded.
- The 卯 Palace holds 武曲 (Wu Qu) and 七殺 (Qi Sha), both Metal in the Five Elements. In love, Metal stars show up as more resolute and decisive; negatively, as a tendency toward loneliness.
- 化忌 × in the 卯 Palace damage 天喜, triggering the negative force of the Metal stars 武曲 and 七殺. And 火星 (Huo Xing) clashes from 亥, forming the "lonely widow pattern" with 武曲 and 七殺. People with this pattern put career first and romance second. Even when they do have a relationship, they tend to focus on their career and neglect their love life.
- 擎羊 (Qing Yang) and 陀羅 (Tuo Luo) clash in from 酉 and 未 respectively. 擎羊 and 陀羅 are malefics that also belong to Metal, strengthening the lonely disposition.
- 地劫 (Di Jie) sits in 酉 and clashes in. In love, 空劫 (Kong Jie) tend to show up as missing the moment, failing to seize a partner in time.
- 天鉞 (Tian Yue) is a benefactor star, but amid a clash of Ji and malefics it easily turns "lonely," and she doesn't easily start relationships with people.
Conclusion
A person's life can hold many experiences and encounters; a love life isn't a necessity. But although these single women have no love life, they still care a great deal about when they'll find someone. Setting the chart aside, if you really want a partner, actively ask family and friends for introductions, join all kinds of activities, and be keenly aware when someone of the opposite sex shows interest. Although her chart makes her passive about love, finding a partner still takes a little active effort.